We have always known that people conform to their social group / current culture. We’ve never really known the reason why. We strongly suspect that people fear:
- being the odd one out
- drawing attention to themselves by being different
- the social cost of being independent of the majority
In the 1950s a psychologist named Solomon Asch, conducted a series of psychological experiments on conformity. “The experiments revealed the degree to which a person’s own opinions are influenced by those of groups. Asch found people were willing to ignore reality and give an incorrect answer in order to conform to the rest of the group.”* The experiment couldn’t explain what was going on in the minds of the conformists.
In 2005 Gregory Berns (an Emory University neuroscientist) updated this experiment with the help of brain-scanning technology. An fMRI scanner took snapshots of the volunteers’ brains as they either conformed or broke with groups opinions. He discovered why people conform to the group by visualizing the effected part of the brains’ activity.
- “The fMRI scans reveal that those who capitulated to the group actually experienced a shift in perception. If the group insisted that a shape was square, suggestible subjects literally “saw” a square.” ** In other words, they were not aware how much their peers had influenced them.
So what does this have to do with social fear? There were people in the Asch and Berns studies who didn’t conform. Using logic, they picked the correct answer in spite of group pressure. Berns calls this “the pain of independence” because the activated area of the brain was in the amygdala which is associated with upsetting emotions such as the fear of rejection.
So what does this information have to do with teaching health and engaging our students? People of all ages need to look inside of themselves and decide
- Am I susceptible to social pressure?
- Will I change my values to meet the expectations of others
- Can I hang with a group but still maintain my individuality? (I don’t have to do, or think the way they do.)
These studies have significance in regard to your student’s goals, their self-image, their ability to say NO, and their decision making ability because we / they live according to the value system conveyed to them by media and authority figures. When I was young, I believed what the world told me; those values were different than my parent’s values. The tendency is to follow the NEW without understanding / appreciating the value of the old.
The wise and learned college students of my day believed, marched and yelled “You can’t trust anyone over 30”. Those over 30 years included their parents, grandparents, aunts/uncles who lived through a depression from 1929 to 1941. They fought / sacrificed through WW2 (many of us did not know that America fought / defeated two evil empires who wanted to dominate the world. Our high school American history classes didn’t have time to cover the depression, World War 2, or the Korean War.) My parent’s generation came home from war, where they saw a lot of death and destruction; and their greatest desire was to build. They built families with children (a celebration of life), they built American industry and rebuilt a devastated Europe and Asia. Appreciation is based on age and experience. My generation only experienced plenty, peace and opportunity until Vietnam and the rebellion began.
Today’s generation is repeating history. They are looking at their parents and seeing them as outdated. They have little appreciation for why their parents’ generation is the way they are. Without life experience it is difficult to recognize values from the past. I know that looking back I see much more value in what was accomplished in the rebuilding time. Without all those accomplishments, my generation would not have so much that we are taking advantage of today. Without traveling abroad, it is very difficult to understand that most people in the world do not have the opportunities or advantages that we live with every day.
For our students to accomplish their hopes and dreams, it is important:
- their peer group have similar goals and ethics / morals
- each individual student have the ability to think for themselves
- each individual be willing to not conform to the group or current cultural narrative — pain of independence
- if necessary walk away — pain of independence to the power of 10
Or they may follow where the currant culture leads them. Following the group / culture has little to do with social pressure. It has everything to do with follow the leader. It’s important our students know who leads them socially and culturally. (Eric Hoffer said — “When people are free to do as they please, they usually imitate each other” (or blindly follow).
There is a $1 million bounty on TimTebow’s virginity? Why was it so important for some people to sabotage Tim’s goal of abstinence until marriage?
Our language and some social settings reflect the value of words such as pure, purity, chaste.
- When these words are applied to men and women, why are these same words treated as laughable?
I (the adult in the room) detect conformity of thought or if you will, a consistent narrative promoted in the media. It is the new normal for ME to accept. What do you, your students, see?
What happens if you disagree?
From the Asch and Burns’ conformity experiments, we know in groups people shift their perceptions. The media (music, TV, movies) has a big audience. Discuss with your students — Ideas / behaviors currently in the media (viewed on TV shows in movies, or music videos) that did not exist during their parents’ teenage or young adult years. In other words, your student’s parents may not like the content and maybe your students, like me so many years ago, are rolling their eyes because of their parent’s lameness.
(Teacher Note: sexual scenes now shown on TV today didn’t exist 5 / 10 / 15 years ago. We now see sympathetic portrayals of every lifestyle. It is a purposeful narrative of unquestioned acceptance. This lifestyle is normal just like. . . . For example, last TV season on the program How to Get Away with Murder, I saw what I considered an explicit aggressive sexual scene between two men. Through the years, we have been conditioned to see sympathetic gay characters on many TV programs. I never expected to see two men going hard at it. I don’t know why I was surprised, how long have we viewed this kind of action between a man and woman. Long enough to consider it normal?)
Ask your students:
- If their grandparents would have regarded these behaviors as pornographic and / or depraved.
- Do you regard these ideas / behaviors so normal that you will participate when given the opportunity?
- Will you be one of those independent souls who walk a different path?
* The Asch Conformity Experiments by Kendra Cherry 07/09/2016 link below: https://www.verywell.com/the-asch-conformity-experiments-2794996
** The anatomy of conformity March 7, 2006 link below: http://scienceblogs.com/neurontic/2006/03/07/the-anatomy-of-conformity/
*** When people are free to do as they please, they usually imitate each other — Eric Hoffer author of The True Believer link below: http://www.newsday.com/business/made-in-usa-a-selling-point-in-china-for-li-vitamin-makers-1.11487675
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